Monday, March 26, 2012

Senseless ... the sad end to Travyon Martin's life


UPDATED: After I wrote this, I read the article posted below.
Trayvon Martin shooting: New details emerge from Facebook and Twitter accounts, witness testimony

The kid wasn't perfect and he had some things in his past that weren't ideal. But, who doesn't? I still have the same issue I did before I saw a more grown up or "gangsta" picture of Trayvon. Zimmerman took the law into his own hands.
He intervened when he should have waited for the police. He should have let them handle it, plain and simple.
Zimmerman is the reason Martin is dead. He was irresponsible in how he dealt with the situation.
I just don't think you can hide behind the stand your ground law when you put someone in a corner and dare them not to react.
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His picture has been all over the news for weeks. What stands out most to me is his brilliant smile. I don't know him nor do I know his living situation. But, he looked like a sweet kid.

Travyon Martin, 17, was shot and killed by George Zimmerman, 28, on Feb 26 in the central Florida suburb of Sanford. (It is about 20 miles from Orlando.)
Zimmerman, a neighborhood crime watch captain, claimed self-defense after shooting Martin once in the chest.
Prior to the shooting, Zimmerman called the police to report a suspicious individual wearing a hoodie. Zimmerman was advised by the dispatcher not to continue his pursuit.
Zimmerman ignored the dispatcher and continued following Martin.
The teen was on the phone with his girlfriend and can be heard asking Zimmerman why he was follow him. In turn, the crime watch captain asks Martin: "What are you doing around here?"
Click here for the full article from Good Morning America (GMA).
And click here for a Fort Worth Star-Telegram article about a hoodie march in Arlington.

Details I haven't heard before emerged from the GMA article.
There is a witness who seems to back up Zimmerman's claim that Martin fought with him, according to the article:
"An eyewitness, 13-year-old Austin Brown, told police he saw a man fitting Zimmerman's description lying on the grass moaning and crying for help just seconds before he heard the gunshot that killed Martin.
The initial police report noted that Zimmerman was bleeding from the back of the head and nose, and after medical attention it was decided that he was in good enough condition to travel in a police cruiser to the Sanford, Fla., police station for questioning. He was not arrested."
The article also revealed why Travyon, who was from Miami, was in Sanford. He was suspended from school after he was found in possession of an empty bag of marijuana, according to the report.
"ABC News has also learned that Martin was staying in Sanford at the time because he'd been suspended from Krop High School in Miami after being found with an empty bag of marijuana. He was staying at his father's fiance's house in Sanford."
As far as I am aware, the only people who know what happened during the incident are Zimmerman and Martin. I don't believe anyone else saw the actual shooting.

But the main thing I would like to express is this: the new details, though sensational, make absolutely no difference. So what if Martin wasn't squeaky clean? He had an empty bag of pot. I don't condone drug use, especially by minors, but, does that make him a villain or an aggressor?

It is also possible that that Martin fought with Zimmerman. He may have even went for the gun. But think about it, if you were walking home from the store with a can of tea and skittles and you noticed that an older male was following you, wouldn't you be weirded out or uneasy? I know my behavior might look a little suspicious.
It is one of the basics instincts - flight or fight. So, yes, I wouldn't be surprised if Martin did fight with Zimmerman. BUT, I doubt it was as an instigator. More likely, he was fighting as a scared 17-year-old kid with a man he perceived was threatening him ...

I can only speculate because I, of course, wasn't there. But, you want to know a fact I know to be true?
Travyon would be alive if Zimmerman had listened to the dispatcher, not pursued Martin and left the policing to the police.

From what I can understand from the stand-your-ground law, if Martin was fighting with Zimmerman and did go for the gun, technically Zimmerman may have a claim of self-defense. Here is another excerpt of the article:
"The new information in the emotionally charged case could complicate pressing charges against Zimmerman, which one veteran prosecutor has already said could be difficult.
"The stand-your-ground law is one portion of justifiable use of deadly force," veteran State Attorney Angela Corey told ABC News. "And what that means is that the state must go forward and be able to prove it's case beyond a reasonable doubt… So it makes the case in general more difficult than a normal criminal case."
But here is the problem I have with it: He was the aggressor and the catalyst in this death. If you take him out of the equation there wouldn't have been an incident.  Zimmerman caused Martin's death.
Where is the justice?

Thursday, March 22, 2012

knock knock ... whose there? GOD

I am convinced that God has a pretty awesome sense of humor.
How else could you explain Alpacas?
I'm going to post a picture of two Alpacas below after I get done with this little ditty annnnnd I dare you not to laugh.
And what about Giraffes?
Such strange little - well big - creatures.
I am not going to lie, I giggle a little every time I see one.
(side note: I wonder what they sound like? The sound in my head is pretty funny.)
He often shows his funny bone when trying to get his point across to me.
I can be a little hard-headed at times.
I was reminded of his sense of humor today via song.
God Gave Me You by Blake Shelton, to be exact.
The song itself isn't funny.
But when I heard it today, I was reminded of a fight I had with Chuck this summer.
That is how the song eventually became funny.
I honestly don't remember what the fight was about. I just remember texting him that day if I needed to communicate with him because "I didn't want to hear his voice."
The hubs and I don't really fight much.
We bicker.
Sometimes, we squabble.
But rarely do we have a huge blow up.
I can count on one hand how many blow ups we've had in the 8 years of togetherness ... AND I would have a few fingers to spare!
That day, we had the mother of all blow ups. (Probably over something dumb.)
I needed to clear my head, so I went for a drive.
When I turned on my car, the song was playing ...
"God gave me you for the ups and downs ...."
Bleh - I didn't want to hear that song at all - especially when I was so mad at my significant other.
So, I changed the station ....
"God gave me you for the days of doubt ...."
Are you kidding me?
I really didn't want to hear that song - so I switched to a Top 40s station.
" ... for when I think I lost my way, there are no words left to say it's true .. God gave me you"
I seriously could not get away from the dang song.
I thought to myself: "Surely it won't come on again on the station I started on" .... So, I make the fourth and final switch.
" .... God gave me you ..."
By that point, all I could do was burst into laughter.
"You got me God ... 
You made your point!"
I felt an appreciation for my hubby right then.
I called Chuck to make my amends.
Now when I hear the song, I smile.
And laugh.
Sometimes God speaks the loudest when you don't want to listen.
Knock knock ...
who is there?
God.

 I mean seriously, how funny are these two?

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

News Flash ...

This just in ...
I am a little bit of a news junkie.
I like reading everything from local to global - from the "feel good" to the "Debbie downer" kind of stuff.
Here is some quick hits on items that piqued my interest today:


Vincent Jackson signs $55,555,555 (ocho cincos) contract with Buccaneers

I may be completely wrong, but Jackson may not be worth all this hoopla ... $55 million is not chump change! He is an amazing player and a huge beast .... He was also a bit of a drama queen last year (not all his fault), but a distraction nonetheless. He also turns 30 in January ... That is kind of old in WR years. So, the Bucs are going to invest that much on someone who is approaching the downhill slide of their career and is known for being a bit of a diva ... ask Randy Moss or T.O. how much it has paid off acting a fool.One just signed a one-year deal with San Fran after practically begging teams to give him a chance and the other is playing with a North Texas indoor arena football team that has about 150 people in the stands ....
I think Mr. Jackson will do the Bucs good the first year or two as long as he isn't making bratty princess demands... we shall see on the rest.


In other news ....
Robbers hold up man in wheelchair in Fort Wort

There is low ... and then there is this. An elderly man on a motorized wheelchair was robbed at gunpoint by two stellar individuals. What kind of person does that? I am guessing someone who is making a living stealing from others doesn't have much of a moral compass, but c'mon man! I hope the scumbags are caught ASAP!



Also ....
Forget stealing copper fellas ... here is what the thieving community is buzzing about now:
500 Pound Beehive Stolen From Outside Houston Restaurant
Who knew bee hives were such a hot commodity? Having them around seems annoying to me. BUT, I do like the end result.


And finally ...

When I read this headline, originally, I thought: "Good for her." 
I worked hard for everything I have and I will expect my children to earn what they're given as well.
But, after reading the story, there seems to be some untold tidbits lurking between the lines. For starters, the article says she inherited her empire from her father. It also states that her children were gives a stake in the trust. But, mommy dearest decided they were unfit to have it and took legal action to block them from the trust. Maybe she has good intentions and her kids could possibly be immature little brats. 
Bottom line, I would rather have my modest life with lots of love and laughter than having all of that money drama.








Monday, March 5, 2012

Who is ready for baseball season?

If our walls could talk, they might say we are the  most patriotic family in America.
Every night, we end the same way: singing The National Anthem, or "Oh say" as Jake likes to call it.

In fact, at Jake's suggestion, the three of us serenaded our fussy baby with "Oh say" on the way home from bible study last night.
It worked (Jake knows his stuff).
Don't get me wrong, we love America and all, but that is not this reason we sing "Oh say."
Baseball is why we belt out "Oh say."

My little dude has seen a lot of baseball in his 3 years and 11 months and a handful of days on earth and actually knows the sport really well  (daddy works for The Fort Worth Cats Baseball Team)
Every game started the same way "Oh say can you see ..."
And every game ended the same way: with Jake going to talk to "his" baseball players in the locker room.
Last season was the best one yet - despite being massively preggers and sitting in the stands in the sweltering heat almost every night.
Jake was old enough to go out on the field and play catch with his daddy and he was big enough to gather up supplies after the game.
I think he felt proud being able to help.
 I drug my big 'ole belly there last summer because it made my little man's face light up, which obviously made my heart melt!
I always received compliments from fellow fans on how well-behaved Jake was watching the game (he would sit through the whole dang thing and keep his eyes glued to the action).
I would always smile like, any proud mamma would.
BUT, I knew that it wasn't my doing. My little dude just loves baseball so much he gave the perception of being a perfect little angel.
This year, he won't just be sitting in the stands watching... he will become a player. Not for The Cats of course ... we signed him up for a t-ball team along with two of his cousins.
The season starts at the end of the month ... I can't wait!
Chuck and I were laughing the other day, but we are actually a little worried that Jake may freak out if "The Naional Anthem" doesn't play before his games ...
The Cats will also kick things off in May.
And Jake will be promoted with the Cats.
He will likely be a ball boy this year and actually get to wear a uniform and sit on the bench with "his" players popping sunflower seeds.
I will be in the stands being one proud mamma.